What if stepping back makes things worse?
In this story, a mom discovers that letting go just a little didn’t make her son fall apart… it helped him finally believe he could succeed.
When your teen isn’t motivated
Many teens with ADHD and anxiety procrastinate because the pressure to perform feels overwhelming. Learn why pushing harder backfires and how a different approach helped one teen finally show up.
Curious about getting help, but don't want to feel judged?
If you’ve ever wondered what happens on a parenting call and feared being judged, you’re not alone. Here’s how one honest conversation can help you feel calmer, clearer, and supported in parenting your teen.
When your teen always has the last word
Some parents feel like every request turns into an argument—the tone, the sighs, the attitude. This real story shows what happened when one mom made a small but powerful shift that changed everything at home.
Thanksgiving with your teenager
Thanksgiving with a teenager doesn’t have to be tense or exhausting. Here are five simple shifts to help your family stay calm, connected, and actually enjoy the day together.
Take a breath. It’s almost Thanksgiving.
Here’s a simple 3-step reset that helps you stay calm, steady, and present with your teenager.
Phone battles? Try this before the holidays.
Every night it’s the same thing: “Get off your phone.” Eye roll. Argument. You walking away feeling like the bad guy. Learn how to shift from power struggles to real conversations and turn phone battles into moments of connection.
Be your teen’s go-to person
How to rebuild trust, stay calm, and become the parent they turn to when life gets messy.
It's not too late
When my kids were 19, 17, and 14, things felt tense — not broken, but fragile. More slammed doors. More silence. More moments when I thought, this isn’t who we are.
The moment I finally knew what to do
There was a time when every conversation with my teen felt like walking through fog. Nothing I tried worked until one quiet moment changed everything. Here’s what helped me find my footing again and reconnect.
Tell me all the horrible things
If “How was your day?” always ends in “Fine,” try a different approach. Learn how curiosity—and one unexpected question—can turn complaints into connection.
When you wish you’d handled it differently
Ever replayed a conversation with your teen and wished you could take it back? The Circle-Back Method helps you repair, reconnect, and bring back the laughter you’ve both been missing.
What finally made my son open up
I used to think my job as a mom was to fix my son — his grades, his attitude, his choices. The harder I tried, the more he pulled away. What finally changed everything wasn’t another strategy or consequence. It was learning how to listen, understand, and show up differently. Here’s how that shift turned me into his go-to person and brought us closer than ever.
Tired of the “Fine. Nothing.” answers?
If you’ve ever asked your teen, “How was your day?” only to get a flat “Fine,” you’re not alone. Those dead-end conversations leave you wondering what’s really going on in their world. The good news? Different questions get different answers. In this post, I’ll share a few simple swaps that open the door to laughter, stories, and even the occasional heart-to-heart.
So… does this mean no consequences?
Parents often wonder: “If I don’t punish my teen, does that mean I just let them get away with it?” The truth is, punishments create shame and distance. But there’s a better way—what I call The Partnership Parenting Method. Instead of punishments, you use agreements and boundaries that build trust, teach responsibility, and protect your relationship.
Why punishments backfire (and what to do instead)
Punishments don’t teach, they control. When kids feel punished, they shut down, lash out, or hide the truth—and we’re left feeling like a nag or a police officer in our own home. In this post, I’ll share why punishments backfire and what to do instead, including real-life examples of how curiosity can open the door to honest conversations and lasting connection with your teen.
Stop managing your teen’s behavior
If it feels like all you do is nag, remind, and argue with your teen, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: your teenager doesn’t need more rules or managing. What they’re missing are the specific life skills that help them handle frustration, take responsibility, and make better choices on their own. In this post, you’ll learn how shifting from “behavior manager” to “skill builder” can bring more cooperation, confidence, and connection back into your home.
The real reason your teen is struggling
Imagine your teen actually wanting to talk to you again. It starts by shifting the conversation away from teen behavior and toward what’s really happening underneath. In this post, you’ll learn how to improve communication with your teenager and take the first step toward rebuilding connection.
Should you block your teen's social media apps?
Blocking your teen’s social media apps might feel protective, but it often backfires—leading to blowups, sneaking around, and lost trust. Here’s a better way to guide them with connection instead of control.
Why they’re saying “fine”
The first weeks of school can feel like a pressure cooker—not just for your teen, but for you. Grades, new friends, after-school moods… and the one-word answers that make you wonder what’s really going on. Here’s how to stay calm, keep the connection, and turn “fine” into a real conversation.